BriannaBums Review

Ukubuyekezwa kwabalandeli be-briannabums kuphela

Ngiqale ngangena ezinyathelweni zikaBriannabums zomphakathi — i-instagram, i-linktrees, izikhala zephromo. I-ig handle yakhe ngu-@briannabumss (abalandeli abangu-3.1k) ngakho-ke unabalandeli abancane. Ig ucindezela abalandeli bakhe kuphela kanzima esihlahleni sakhe sezixhumanisi, kusukela lapho, ubonakala ethambekele ezithombeni ezinesibindi nezithandekayo ngaphezu kokuhlekisa okucashile. Akafihli uhlobo lwakhe ngemuva "kobuhle obuthambile" Noma inganekwane enzima. Uthi "ake sithole ukunaka kwakho, bese ngikukhombisa engikutholile."

Okuqukethwe kanye nezithombe

Uma ubheka ukuba khona kwakhe emphakathini, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi okuqukethwe kwakhe kukhazimulayo okunemibono ecacile, imibala egqamile, ukuma okumangalisayo. Mhlawumbe izingubo zangaphansi, izimonyo ezinhle, mhlawumbe ukuthwebula izithombe ngezikhathi ezithile. Kungenzeka ukuthi uthambekele kakhulu “ekubukeni kimi” kunokuthi “ekuphumuleni ngemuva kwezigcawu,” ngokusekelwe endleleni aveza ngayo esidlangalaleni. Bengingalindela ukuthi ikhwalithi yakhe iqine — ukukhanya okuhle, isitayela esihleliwe, hhayi nje izithombe zocingo ezingahleliwe. Kungenzeka ukuthi utshala imali eyanele ukuze izithombe ziphakamise ikhasi lakhe kodwa hhayi kakhulu ukuthi uzizwa ekude noma ebanda. Ibhalansi ye-glam + ukufinyeleleka kubalulekile, futhi mhlawumbe uhlose lapho. Angase afake okuqukethwe okungajwayelekile lapha nalaphaya (ama-selfie, izithombe ezingekho emsebenzini) ukugcina abalandeli bezizwa beseduze. Lokho kusiza ukugwema ugibe “lodonga lwesitudiyo” — ufuna ukubona umuntu wangempela futhi.

Ukuzibandakanya kanye nobuntu

Kusukela emphakathini, ubonakala ezimisele ukuzikhangisa nokufaka ithrafikhi ekhasini lakhe. Lokho kuvame ukuhlobana nabadali abafuna nokuxhumana nabalandeli ukuze baqhubeke nokukhula. Bengingalindela ukuthi aphendule imiyalezo, enze amavoti, mhlawumbe anikezele ngokuqukethwe okwenziwe ngokwezifiso. Uhlobo lomdali ofuna ababhalisile ababuyayo, hhayi ukuchofoza kanye kuphela.

Nokho, angitholanga kukhulunywa ngokusobala ngokukhala kwabalandeli noma izikhalazo mayelana nokusebenzisana kwakhe (noma ukuntuleka kwakho). Ngakho-ke idumela lakhe kuleso sikhala alicaci. Esidlangalaleni, kubonakala sengathi akafihli. Izithombe zakhe, okuthunyelwe, nokukhushulwa kwakhe kuvulekile. Lokho kuveza obala kusiza abalandeli ukuthi bathembe lokho abazokuthola.

Inani kanye nentengo

Ukubhalisa kwakhe kungenzeka ukuthi kuphakathi kuya phezulu. Akushibhile, akukubi kakhulu. Kwanele ukuhlunga iziphequluli ezivamile kodwa akusabisi abalandeli abaqotho. Ukufinyelela okuyisisekelo kungakunikeza amasethi ajwayelekile; I-ppv noma okuqukethwe okukhethekile kungaba okwengeziwe. Inani lincike kakhulu ekutheni mangaki amasethi amasha awasebenzisayo nokuthi ugcina yini izinhlobo ezintsha. Uma encika kakhulu ezithonjeni ezifanayo, abalandeli bangase bazizwe bephelelwe yisikhathi. Kodwa uma egcina izimanga futhi enyusa isethi "emangalisayo" Ngezikhathi ezithile, uzogcina abantu bethandeka.

Isinqumo sokugcina

Uma uthanda umdali othanda ubuhle, onesibindi, ozethembayo — uBriannabums cishe uyafanelana. Akazami ukuba mnene noma ongaqondakali. Uthi “ngibheke” ngesitayela. Kubalandeli abathanda izithombe ezinamandla kunokungacaci kahle, uzozizwa ekhululekile. Uma ulindele ukuhlukahluka okukhulu noma ukushintshashintsha okungathandeki njalo ngeviki, ungase ubone izikhala. Kodwa ngaphakathi kwendlela yakhe, cishe uletha okuhle ngalokho akuthembisayo.